There
are comparisons in this world...
Whatever
is best, the next is measured accordingly...
Comparisons
are measures for human beings...
That
makes one sad and the other happy...
What
is beautiful for one is ugly for the other, and what is ugly for one is
beautiful for the other...
The
reason why the taste of the food is enjoyed or not...
What
makes a number on a taxi meter expensive or cheap...
When
one learns what is full, one can compare with the empty.
He
knows what it means to be hot when he feels the cold.He
understands what it means to be healthy when he has a toothache and can't sleep
all night...
The
Experiential Teaching says: “Everything is created by its opposite."
For
365 days of the year, there is not only night; daytime says “I exist too”. The
sun comes and goes, the moon and stars take over the guard. Happy moments give
their place to sadness... Until the next happiness and sadness. And a man understands one because he knows
the other. Good and bad, beautiful and ugly, pain and pleasure, right and
wrong...
And
the comparisons begin:
Oh,
it's so hot...
Oh,
it's so cold...
Oh,
how beautiful...
Ughh
so ugly...
That's
very true...
It
is absolutely wrong...
If
comparisons are my criteria that affect my stance towards life, my
communication, my relationships, my success, how should I determine it?... An exam with 13 points less, a car that is
better equipped than my car, or a holiday gift prepared by someone else's
husband... These should not be a measure that makes you sad or happy; shouldn't
they?
The
Experiential Design Teaching says, “It speaks of the importance of
comparisons in the functioning of the mind.”
When
human beings tend towards the fake, their comparisons start to be other people.
Where labor is required, where a price has to be paid, he immediately looks
around. He looks for the one who does less than him. He complains, why are they
doing less? And when something is given to him, he looks at other people,
wondering why they are given more...
However,
the important thing is to compare oneself to yesterday...
Constantly
derive experiences from one's own life...
The
person whose comparison is his own yesterday will be in harmony with reality.
And
the one who lives in harmony with the truth in this life is the one who wins in
the end...
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